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THEN

NOW

It’s one thing to look at your face in the mirror and see wrinkles, age spots and white hair. It’s quite another to see your favorite musician staring at you from a screen resembling an old man or woman.

It’s unbelievable to me that Paul McCartney, Mick Jagger, Bob Dylan, Rod Stewart, and Joni Mitchell, to name just a few, are in their seventies. Yes, their seventies! It drives home the fact that we are no longer the younger generation and haven’t been for quite some time.

But it doesn’t take away from the powerful feelings and emotions evoked from their music. Nothing takes you back like a song from the past.

So, having recently been given a record player by a good friend, I decided it was time to pull out the albums and revisit those days, as well as surmise the condition of the vinyl which hadn’t seen the light of day for many decades.

The first cover I pulled out was the Rolling Stones’ Out of Our Heads. I carefully retrieved the record from its sleeve and placed it on the turn table. Then I lowered the needle, oh so gingerly, onto the vinyl so as not to make a scratch. Within seconds, Mick was singing, “I can’t get no, Satisfaction….” And I was propelled into my parents’ backyard, at a high school party where we guzzled forbidden beer and got totally wasted, or pretended to be so and danced until our feet blistered. I was right there in my yard. In black jeans and French beret. Not a sixty something woman, wondering where all the years had gone.

“That really doesn’t sound too good.” A voice broke into my memory.

“What?” I opened my eyes, shocked for a brief moment to see this grey haired man talking to me.

“It’s all scratched up,” my husband said.
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“A little.” I hadn’t even noticed. But I did notice that within minutes, my husband was moving his body to the music.

Without asking, he moved the coffee table off to the side, picked up my hand and began swinging me around.

Back in the day, we had moves. He would twirl and spin me. Slide me through his legs and lift me over his head. Today, our bodies are decades from being that agile. But the mind is a powerful muscle. And if Mick can still strut around, so could we.

About fifteen minutes into our routine, the needle got stuck in a grove. That wasn’t the only thing that became stuck. My husband was having trouble lifting me up from a dip. Instead, he lowered me to the ground, very carefully. I removed the needle from the groove, silencing the music. And just like that, we returned to our current, sixty-something selves.

“How did we get here?” My husband asked. He pulled Blonde on Blonde from the stack of albums. “God, look how young Dylan was when this came out.”

“So, were we,” I said, twisting my waist right and then left. The parts all still worked. But they weren’t used to moving around so quickly. “How do you think Mick and Paul feel now after a night on stage?”

“Exhausted. Exhilarated. Lucky.”

“We’re lucky, too.” I kissed my husband on the cheek.

And I don’t doubt that for a second. I feel lucky to have grown up during the sixties and seventies, when music had melodies and relevant lyrics. Not that every generation doesn’t think so, but I know ours was the best.

Growing old is inevitable. Doing it with some of the greatest musicians ever born, makes it that much better.

 

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WHAT MY FATHER BUILT

FATHER: THEN

FATHER: NOW

When I was growing up, my father brought in the bacon.  All of it.  He went to work every morning at 6:00 and came home every evening around 5:30.  When he walked in the door after a hard day at the office, my mom handed him a cocktail, the newspaper and a slice of rye bread.  (Don’t ask.  I’m not sure why he wanted this, unless of course, it was a symbol of being the bread winner.) For the next half hour he would sit and relax while my mom finished making dinner and my sister and I set the table.

I guess you’d say he was a lot like Ward Cleaver or Jim Anderson on “Father Knows Best.”  And back then I believed he did know best.  After all, he was the man of the house.  My father.

This routine lasted for many, many years until my sister and I started high school, at which time our mom wanted to go to work.  Not so much for the money.  But how many times can you change the bedding, scrub the toilets, rearrange the pantry, or play golf in one week?

But Mom going to work wasn’t the only change that took place in our household.  Now my father’s daughters were dating.  Goodbye Ward Cleaver.  Hello Archie Bunker.

My father wasn’t exactly like good old Archie, but when it came to the boys his girls were bringing home, he could be quite judgmental.  After all, he had once been a teenage boy and he knew how boys could act toward girls.  When their daughters it’s a scary time for fathers.

And of course, as a teenage girl, I knew my father did NOT know what was best for me!
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Some of my boy friends were definitely  “undesirables”  in my father’s eyes.  In looking back, I can’t say as I blame him.  With only two daughters, he had five son-in-laws.  So, I guess he had reason to be concerned.

Let’s not forget the time he had to bail me out of jail. (Nothing serious) The many months when he wondered when I was going to get on with my life after I came back from Europe.  And what the heck was I doing with my college degree? Of course, I was wondering that same thing myself. Although, I would never admit that to him.

So, eventually I went to find who I was in life, with the security of always knowing where to find my father.  In his workshop.  Throughout the years he was always building something.  From gigantic wall units, to roll-top desks to rocking horses.  In his later years, he turned to small wooden objects such as stamp holders, bagel tongs and boxes with secret openings. He often made me guess what he was making.

But I never have to guess how much he loved me.  And of all the things he’s built, the best was the strong foundation upon which my sister and I lived for many years. Until the time came for us to build lives of our own.

He’s been gone now for six years. In that time, his grandchildren have become parents. HIs great grandchildren will never meet him in the physical sense, but they will sit on his chairs, ride his rocking horses and play with his wooden toys.

And they, too, will argue with their fathers, and as they grow up, they will doubt their fathers’  knowledge in everything. But in the end, I hope they come to realize – Fathers really do know best.

I know, mine did.

I miss you, Daddy!

HAPPY FATHER’S DAY to all the wonderful fathers in our lives.

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Learning From My Mother’s Dog

 

 

Living with an elderly parent can be challenging.  There are days I find myself wanting to get into my car and drive away until I’m as far from my selfish feelings as I can get. Because as much as I love giving and caring for my mom, I have moments when I don’t think I can take it anymore.  When that happens,  I don’t like myself very much.

But fortunately, my mom’s dog gets what’s going on. Everyone needs a little bit of Chipper.

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Starbucks Saved My Neighbor

Or at least that chain of coffee houses, saved my neighbor’s car. And for that I am eternally grateful. I have a wonderful neighbor.  She has saved my life on numerous occasions by providing a stick of butter, a teaspoon of baking powder, and shoulder to vent on.

I swim laps in her pool during the summer. We consume fine wine while listening to the oldies and playing Rummy Q.  We talk an occasional walk. And we talk. And talk. And talk.

She even walked me through a roller coaster ride at Disneyland by holding my hand and assuring me we would land soon at the same place where we started. And that I wasn’t going to have a heart attack.

So, Sunday morning she was making pancakes for her son (being the great mother that she is) and her daughter, a typical teenager wanted Starbucks. Like I said, my neighbor is a great mother, so she obliged her daughter’s wish, putting the pancakes on hold for a few minutes.

A few minutes in which her life would have gone down a different path if she’d stayed home flipping those pancakes.
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I recently switched to Peets, but I’m coming back you, Starbucks.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

 

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A Personal Time Bank

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THEN : Changing the Time

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NOW : Changing the Time

With the end of Daylight Savings, Time has been on my mind. That elusive concept that always seems to pass too slowly when you’re young and way too fast once you’ve crossed the half century mark of your life.

I mean, really.  One minute you’re walking down the aisle in a cap and gown and the next you’re wearing a backless gown and being wheeled down the corridor for a colonoscopy.

So, I’ve been thinking.  What if instead of simply turning the clocks back an hour in March and then gaining that hour in October, we could actually save time itself?

If all those hours of Daylight Savings were actually saved in Personal Time Bank accounts.

Every Daylight Savings we would add another hour, not be used until we turned forty or of an age when we could really appreciate time.  Our hours would accumulate and then each fall when we turn the clocks back, we could go to our time bank and withdraw whichever hour we wanted.

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You could withdraw an hour from the day your child was born and relive how it felt to cradle her in your arms.  Before she learned how to talk back.

Or maybe an hour from when you were laid up in bed with a broken bone.  An hour that would remind you to slow down, take a deep breath.  You don’t need to be there for everyone, all the time.

If you were sad over something, you could take a “happy” hour from your bank to remind you of life’s ups and downs.  Perhaps withdraw an hour to help you through a tough situation.  Or even an hour to spend with someone who is no longer with you.

You could revisit the days when we called each other to say hello instead of sending emails.  When a text usually meant a book, a virus referred to something attacking our bodies, and a window was a large opening looking out onto the world.

And let’s take it one step further.  How about being able to withdraw against these hours whenever you needed a few extra minutes to meet a deadline? Instead of rushing from the market to the soccer game to the doctor’s to the office, you could borrow from your Time Bank and make that tightly squeezed day, just a bit easier.

Or maybe even trade hours with your friend to see how it really feels to walk in someone else’s shoes.  Oh, how we could learn to stop judging and just accept each other.

Best of all, we could loan hours to someone whose life is being cut too short.

Oh, the possibilities are limitless.

If only this were possible. But, it’s not. So, I’m going to use this hour for some “me” time.

How about you?

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The Future Can Be Spooky

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So, here it is – almost Halloween.  The night when the ghosts and goblins (ie, trick or treaters) invade our inner peace.

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Remembering 9/11

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It was supposed to be an ordinary morning. The alarm would go off. I’d listen to the talk radio, dose off for a few minutes, listen some more and then force myself out of bed.

As usual, I’d be the first one in the office, and I’d pray that everyone else showed up before the boss.

Lateness didn’t set well with him.

Over coffee, I would listen to what my co-workers did the previous evening.

Whose kid didn’t clean up her room the night before. Who had a headache because the office was too hot. Who had a headache because the office was too cold.

We’d complain about customers who didn’t pay on time. Rant over a jammed printer. Bitch about the mail arriving late.

It was supposed to an ordinary morning.

 

But the only normal occurrence that morning was the sound of the radio clicking on. After that, nothing was normal.

It was September 11, 2001. 6:40 a.m. PST.

The talk jock mentioned something about not only one plane, but two that had just crashed in the World Trade Center. I flipped on the TV to the most horrifying sight. Yet, I didn’t quite grasp that it was real. That I wasn’t watching a movie.

While I watched, a man’s voice spoke from the Pentagon. Less than ten minutes later, he shouted that the Pentagon had been hit. Hijacking number 3. On my way to work, I heard about Flight number 93.

And then I cried. While driving on that ordinary street through my familiar world with office buildings, convenience stores and gas stations on every corner, I cried.

And nothing has been the same since.

Nothing.

That day at work, we didn’t talk about what food we undercooked the night before. Or whose husband didn’t help with dishes.  Or how hot it was because the air conditioner wasn’t working.

Collectively, we listened to the news as it unfolded.
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Privately, we listened to our hearts. And began to sort out what was really important.

It seemed insignificant to complain or worry about those small things we worried and complained about only the day before.

We had each other. We had our health. We had a “tomorrow.”

With each new story, I couldn’t help but wonder what the people in the World Trade Center might have been thinking.  Were their last thoughts about a mortgage payment? A bad hair cut? About an argument with their spouse?

With each new story, another of my tears fell into the atmosphere already so heavy with sorrow and anger.

Now, sixteen years later (yes, sixteen years!) I know what is important and what is not.

I keep in touch with friends on a daily basis.

I say “I love you” to my husband, my sister, my parents, my children and my grandchildren each time I say goodbye. (Sometimes to telemarketers because I forget who I’m talking to.)

I’ve put my life into perspective, taking a good look at the big picture, at the scope of things.

I plan for the future, but live, truly live for the moment.

I want to feel textured emotions from each rich sunrise to sunset.

To thread the fabric of each hour into the next.

To welcome the darkness without “should haves” or “what ifs.”

With time, there became another ordinary morning.

But I will never forget that day when it all turned upside down.

My heart and prayers go out to those families and friends whose lives were forever changed.

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Ode To Our Porcelain God

Toilet

You’ve been a great companion,

But, sadly, here’s the scoop.

It’s time for us to say goodbye,

We need a place to poop.
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Between the Lines

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